I have a boarder collie for 4 years and it is a very active and an agressive dog. Yesterday we had a big argumnt whether to put the dog to sleep or not. I love my dog and my parents decided to put him to sleep and I'm extremely upset.
My mother is the seed of the problem, she's a person who can't control her tempation, she always desire for things and ended up throws it away. so 4 years ago she bought a puppy border collie and eventually, she got bored and dumped it to me to take care of it. she left the mess to me. It was her mess and I had to cleaned it up and I was very angry to her. I was attched to the dog, took care of it, fed it and play with it. If the dog barks, or causes trouble, my mother would blame me, hey, she wanted the dog in the first the place, she's the seed of the issue. she for all the trouble the dog caused.
Her excuse wasn't be able to spend the time with the dog, because she's too busy with the housework. yes, I agree to the fact, and I can accept that excuse. but this is her attitude, she can't control her temptation, she wasted her money on useless things, used it once and the next day she forgets all about it. she once bought a violin, never played it. she bought set of punching bag, never punched it again. she bought a microscope kit set, never used it again. she wasted her money on a lot of crap and never used it. I hate her attitude! This included the dog she bought, which i had to take care of it at the end. If a dog barks or causes trouble she would harass me and I become the victim to handle the problem.
Yesterday, my dog storms out of the house accidentally by my brother. My dog ran and bit another dog. The dog owner yelled at my dad. My dog has caused a lot of trouble and for 4 years me and my dad put up with it. This time he wants to put the dog to sleep. I'm very sad caused I loved my dog so much. I spent a lot of time with the dog so much that I get so sick and tired, including my mother blamed me for everyting if the dog causes trouble. For this issue I blamed my father as well. He never wants to walk with dog. He has poor lifestyle, all he does is eat, drink, sleep, watch TV, play with his iphone and play piano. He refused to walk with the dog no matter what.
Today my parents taking the dog to the VET to put him to sleep. Alternatively, my mom got a called from the VET, and say the VET said they're not going to put him to sleep. instead, they're going to assess the dog to measure its agressivness and also to see if other people is interested in the dog. I'm VERY SKEPTICAL and SUSPICIOUS, when my parents said. they just said that to make me feel better. but, when I wanted to follow them to the VET, they won't let me.
So they are going to put the dog to sleep! I can't see my dog for the last time! not even a last good bye! help me!!!
There's no way you can get any help from an online answer board. It is true, though, that most veterinarians do not want to put a healthy animal down just because the owner no longer wants it. they may indeed try to evaluate its temperament and try to find a better home for it. It's possible your parents are telling you the truth.
I am going to assume that you are a minor, and were put in charge of your mom's dog.
Owning and caring for a dog is a big job with a lot of responsibility, and depending on your age, probably not a good idea for mom to leave you in complete charge of the dog.
Part of the responsibility of caring for a dog is training it so it isn't tempted to charge out the door at it's first opportunity-and further to not be aggressive with other dogs.
It isn't easy, and since this training clearly hasn't been done it is the right thing to have the dog assessed on it's aggressiveness and put up for adoption. It is the very thing that is called for in this instance.
Whatever your issues with your parents, I would believe that the Vet wouldn't put the dog to sleep without going through the extra measures, out of compassion for the dog.
no vet would put a healthy animal to sleep so you dont really have to worry about that but i really dont understand why your mom really hates the dog because it's agressive… my shih tzu bit my face 3 TIMES!!! and i didnt care because i loved him anyways and gave him alot of love and he never bit me once again and he's the one who follows me around the house and waits for me to come home when im not there and when my mom gets mad at him he starts running to me because sometimes she blames him when its not even his fault so i keep him comfortable with me and and i were you i would have a serious talk with your parents and say you dont take care of this dog and i dont want you to give him away or do anything to him unless you want me to cry 24/7 and tell your dad what you say he does like eat, drink, sleep, watch TV, play with his iphone, and play piano tell him that and make him understand how he lives and he will be upset at himself and tell your mom that you are pretty much wanting to abuse the poor doggie and say im coming to the vet whether you like it or NOT! this is my dog too and i want to come! you have to step up to your parents!
i'm sorry to hear that your parents are no more responsible than that.
although you don't respect their actions, it's good to hear that you do respect –them–because they are your parents.
i'm sure the vet did call and that is what he was going to do.
what i'm not so sure of is this–where your parents are actually taking the dog.
if i were you, i would ask them to please, please take the dog to the vet and let him be evaluated. tell them that the vet's office would find a good home for him being that there are plenty of people who would rather adopt him rather than seeing him put down.
but YOU HAVE TO KEEP THIS IN MIND–1–even you know he is aggressive. and now he has actually bitten. 2–it's just a matter of time before he eventually bites a person. 3–if all the man did was yell, then your family got off lightly. and that's really somewhat lightly because now i'm sure there are bad feelings toward your family by the owner of the other dog. 4–i don't know the laws where you are, but i would think that your family could be sued if there are any vet bills.
5–what if he does bite someone? sooner or later he will escape again. what if there's children playing, and he gets upset/overly excited by all the screaming, yelling and running around?
what if he attacks? what if he just wants 'to play' but plays 'too hard', hurting some of them? because he sounds like that type of dog.
i know you love him. just try to find out if, or, convince your parents to, take him where he could be adopted.
Actually, none of the vets I've brought my pets to will kill a healthy animal.
Instead of killing the dog, your parents should have contacted Border Collie rescue and tried to release the dog to them.
Let's be honest here, this is not "your dog". your mother bought it and no one gave a damn about "it" (not once have you called the dog anything other than "the dog" or "my dog"), so it's either going to end up dead because of the laziness in your family, or someone else is going to have to clean up your (your family's) mess..
If you are an adult, then why didn't *you* properly care for this dog instead of deciding to kill it because you couldn't be bothered? Am I supposed to feel sorry for you?
It is extremely likely that the vet did call your mom. I have done the same thing many times because there are solutions and answers to aggression issues that can be fixed by making easy changes that some people don't want to make. I am not going to euthanize or ask my staff members to euthanize a perfectly healthy animal that is being euthanized as a way to get rid of a problem. as his legal owners, your parents decision to surrender him to the vet, for assessment and rehoming or for euthanasia is their's to make. I think they made the right decision. NOT for EUTHANASIA but In realizing that they do not want to have the responsibility of owning a dog. He deserves an owner that wants him.
I hope that when getting a dog of your own you think it out more clearly than your parents did when getting this one. they are a tremendous amount of responsibility. You should pick a breed that is agreeable with your lifestyle. Dogs can live to be 18 – 19 years old. all dogs being kept as a pet should be neutered and should be provided obedience training and proper socialization. I wish you all the best and I really hope that you will see that now he has a chance at being a part of someones family and not anyones problem anymore.