Okay, how is this proposal idea. Tell me what is good, bad, needs improving.
Okay, it's her b/day. I tell her the night before that I have 2 presents- 1 of which is very big and fragile. When she wakes up (she thinks she has the day at work- I have already booked it off for her) I give her a present, jewelery probably. then I say that I need to pop off to get the part for her 'big' present. already placed is a card with a small present and a rose in a inconspicuous place. I text her to tell her when it is and she finds it and read it. It is a poem which explains that today she is going to be going on a scavenger hunt. It takes her to the exact place where we first kissed. Her she is told in her next clue to put on a blindfold. I then come up behind her whisper something romantic in her ear and then kiss her. then, I vanish before she takes off her blindfold. then she basically follows the clues which will lead her to places where she can have a manicure, massage etc. Her hair and make up. buy an evening dress, perfume etc. The cards are strategically placed so that people are actually monitoring them so they don't get stolen or lost or anything. then she is lead to a taxi where she is flown on a private jet to Paris accompanied with an iPod full of our favourite tracks on. then she is blindfolded when the pilot is about to land the plane (he places the next clue next to her while she is blind and is listening to the music). then a recording of me saying (Bienvennue a Paris) is played and she takes off the blindfold and is landed in Paris. she is escorted to a plush suite in a fancy hotel which has big glass windows over looking the eiffel tower (a key part later). she is taken to the room where another clue awaits. she has some free time in Paris and is told what time to get back to the room. When she is gone, I go into the room and place another clue there. It gives directions to a restuarant where I will be waiting. I give her a present which is not the ring. At the end of the meal, she always goes to the loo…whilst she is in there I will leave and leave another clue on the table leading to the middle floor of the eiffel tower. we will meet there and we will look over the view. then I will get down on one knee and a person who was suspected to just be admiring the view will play the violin and as i ask will you marry me someone will through over rose petal confetti. if possible, some fireworks will go off at the exact moment she hopefully accepts. When we get to the hotel, I will anounce that we have the next week in Paris together.
i think it is a very good idea.although to be honest when i read the plane to paris thing i was like hmmm is he making this part up. i would love my guy to do a scavenger hunt but im scared to fly so going to paris would not be for me.also how are you going to be there for her in the morning and get to paris before her?usually there is only 2 flights out.also who will get her from the airport? sounds complicated.i say do everything and instead of paris try a really nice hotel in your area.maybe do the scavnger hunt together.i would want to stay with my bf on my bdaynot alone.also you said she gets her hair done and make up but then goes to paris.well the problem there is that there is a time difference.most likely when she gets to paris it will be about 8am there.im sure she will be tired.too much of it doesnt make sence.
The only part I have a problem with is you coordinating her time off from work. many women would find that inconsiderate and rude. like you do not value whatever work she does. I think it would be better to, at the very least, tell her you want to take her on a vacation for her birthday but the location and itinerary are secret. let her coordinate her time off, arrange coverage for her workload, make sure the timing is ok, etc. you could risk her reputation at work, potential promotion, credibility and reliability.
awww!! thats very good! every girl deserves a man that thinks this much about her!
good luck!
WOW! That's about all I've got right now….lol.
Oh, and the fact that I wish you were friends with my fiance and could have given him some tips…lol.
Yeah, it's great if you can actually pull all that off.
Just keep in mind that it only has to be meaningful and sincere. not over the top. My fiance proposed to me while vacationing in the country together, and it was truly perfect and amazing. No grand gestures or scavenger hunts. Just a simple declaration of his love and a ring. I personally wouldn't have changed a thing.
Paris is alot too much. everything else would be kind of cool. But if my boyfriend did that I'd be mad he spent that much money on it. Paris takes lots of planning especially the whole passport thing. And she'd know where she's going by the plane ticket.
I can see getting hair/makeup/dress for an evening date but really Paris?!
It sounds very romantic and elaborate. I hope you put this much work into your marriage!
Sounds good, if you can manage it without anything hiccuping. Your plan relies on a lot of things working out very very smoothly. It could potentially go very wrong, no matter how much planning you do. I don't know that's it's so necessary for everything to be so much of a surprise (I hope she loves surprises). I think you could keep it a bit simpler and be with her for more of it and still have a very romantic proposal. I'd recommend going less complicated and spend more of that time with her so you can read if any of it is making her nervous (in a bad way).
Seems too over the top to me. do you really think your girlfriend would enjoy you spending that kind of money on something she had no input on? I agree with the other answerer that she may not appreciate you requesting a week off of work for her without telling her. I also think most employers would not be too inclined to go along with it.
Either plan a trip to Paris and do that part or do the part in England but don't do both. (I do think the violinst at the Effiel tower.. while corny, does sound very memoriable and romantic).
DO NOT give her an engagement ring as a birthday gift! do it days/week before or after, but not on. It should be a special day all on its own.
And, if you like the drama of what you have planned, fine.
For me, my husband just asked me in private – I was over at his apartment watching a movie. nothing could have been more special or romantic. I would have strangled him (or said no) if he had done it publicly.
Listen, IF I could get either one of these proposals, I would be weak in the knees. What a lucky woman. do you have brothers? I'm just so sick of my luck.